Many families in Indian cities bring in a japa (a short-term newborn and mother caregiver) or a nanny in the first months. Both can be a big help. The best arrangements start with a clear brief and proper checks.
Nanny or japa: what is the difference?
- Japa: usually for the first weeks to a few months. Helps with the newborn, and often with the mother's recovery, massage and meals.
- Nanny: usually for a longer period, caring for the baby while parents work or rest.
Write down what you need first
People get better matches when they are specific. Decide on:
- Your area and the baby's age
- The shift: day, night or full day, and days per week
- Start date and how long you will need help
- Tasks: feeding support, bathing, sleep routine, light baby laundry, helping the mother
- Languages, experience with newborns, and your monthly budget
Our brief builder turns these answers into a message you can copy or send on WhatsApp.
What to check before you confirm
- ID proof and a recent photograph
- Police verification, through your local police station or your housing society's process
- Two references you actually speak to
- A recent health check, since the person will be close to a newborn
- A short trial period, with an agreed review date
Questions to ask in the conversation
- "How have you handled a baby who will not stop crying?"
- "What would you do if the baby has a fever at night?"
- "How do you wash your hands and sterilise bottles?"
- "Have you cared for a newborn before? For how long?"
Set expectations early
Agree on pay, leave, working hours and house rules in writing, even a simple note on WhatsApp. It prevents most misunderstandings later.